Breast
cancer is the most common form of cancer found in women, and this
year alone 192,000 new cases will be diagnosed in the U.S. It eventually
strikes one out of every eight American women. Breast cancer also
causes more deaths than any other form of cancer in women under
age 55.
As
women, we all fear breast cancer. It is the one disease that sends
chills down our spines and puts a knot in our stomachs. I am not
about to go over all the reasons why women get breast cancer or
who is or isn't a high risk factor. I will leave that subject to
those who are far more qualified than I, however, there is one factor
that affects your breast health and that is the fit of your bra.
Right
now, as you read this, 80% of all the women in America are wearing
the wrong size bra. Most of them are uncomfortable and most of them
are too small. Your breast is all about circulation and the flow
of lymph so if you want a healthy breast, do all the stuff you should
do on a regular basis, self exam monthly, routine visit with your
doctor, and a mammogram when she/he recommends it for your age and
family history, AND wear a bra that FITS you.
A tight,
binding, constricting, and ill fitting bra is bad for you and can
cause major discomfort as well as retarding the circulation in and
around your breast. So what can you do to change that? Find a bra
that fits YOU perfectly.
This
process is very simple but requires the help of an "expert". When
I was growing up in Brooklyn, New York, my mother use to call them
the "brassier ladies". They were mostly European born and had
worked in corset shops in Europe as fitters or seamstresses.
This noble group of women worked in neighborhood lingerie
shops. You never bought a bra without their expertise.
They
had such a trained eye that the minute any woman walked in the door
they knew what size she was. They would take one look and say, "34C".
It was like radar, they just knew from afar, and when they measured
you, they were almost ALWAYS right.
Today
there is a more modern version of these women called lingerie
fitters. They are in local shops (if your town is lucky to have
one), or work in major department stores in the lingerie department.
So your first step to finding the right bra is to go see one of
these gals. They will take your measurements, first under your rib
cage and all around your back and then across your breast. One tells
what your bra size is (34, 36, 38 etc.) and the other tells your
cup size (A, B, C, D etc.) Now that you know this they will
usually recommend a style for your body type based on your needs.
During your session, tell this person all about your basic wardrobe.
Are you looking for a bra to wear under a tee shirt or a knit,
one for sports or the gym, or a special occasion look? Or do you
need to establish a basic bra wardrobe?
Believe
me, one hour spent with one of these experts will not only save
you money in the long run (by avoiding having a drawer full of ill-fitting
bras you can no longer wear), but you will be saved the daily agonies
of wearing bras that hurt, are too tight, dig into your shoulders
or are just plain torture!
Once
you have established your size and needs, then follow these simple
suggestions for a long and comfy relationship with your bras.
Next,
take your right hand and smooth the skin of the left breast into
the cup. Do the same on the other side.
Stand
up straight and see how the straps fit and feel. They should be
comfortable without feeling like a vice. Adjust as needed until
perfect.
Now,
look straight ahead into a mirror and make certain that each
nipple is in the CENTER of each cup.
Adjust
the back of the bra so it lies smoothly between your shoulder blades.
Take
a deep breathe, how does it feel?
A word
about brand names. Not every manufacturer cuts the same way, that
is true of bras as well as clothes. You might be a size 34C
in one brand but a 34D in another. And there may be some brands
you can't wear at all.
BRA
DO's & DON'TS
Do
get measured again every time you lose or gain weight, after a pregnancy,
or if you are on hormone replacement therapy.
Don't
EVER buy a bar without trying it on and stay away from the sale
rack.
Unless
there is a brand and style there that you wear, pulling one off
the rack because it is marked down is no bargain. Chances are it
will have a long and happy life in your lingerie drawer.
Do
buy an under wire style if you are full breasted and need firmer
support.
Do
buy a minimizer if you want to have a large breast appear smaller.
Do
try one of the new soft cup bras that offer construction for a smaller
breast. (Soft cup means sans under wire.)
Do
throw away any and all bras that hurt you or are uncomfortable -NO
MATTER HOW MUCH you paid for them.